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In the weddings episode of Adam Ruins Everything, he debunks several myths regarding weddings and marriage.  The first and biggest one is that your wedding is supposed to be the most important day of your life.  In reality, it's the most expensive day of your life.  The wedding industry reinforces the myth that being married is more important that anything else in your life and pressures emotional brides into paying inflated prices just because it's a wedding.

 Secondly, the show talks about how we're made to believe that divorce is the worst possible outcome to a marriage.  In reality, divorce to be a benefit to both parties, especially if it's an unhealthy, toxic, or abusive relationship.  People change, grow apart, even fall out of love, and because of that, divorce can be an opportunity move on.

 Thirdly, the show talks about weddings are supposed to be two people confessing their undying love for each other.  But really, it's a production to show off how much money you have.  People spend thousands of dollars on weddings, a few hour event where most things involved will never be used/worn again.  It's an overblown party just to watch two people sign a contract.

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